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A Mini-Guide to Progressive Polyamory Jul 18, 2023

What is open-relating?

Why would a couple choose to open their relationship?

How would they even go about doing that?

I wrote this Mini-Guide to Progressive Polyamory for my poly-curious folks who have been considering it...

And for my folks who have gotten started,...

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The Solution To The Gender War... battle of the sexes gender kenya k stevens love progressive love academy relationships Sep 01, 2022

I Am Going To Challenge Pastor TD Jakes To An Ego Debate 

Hear me out...

I am frankly, exhausted, of hearing "men" proclaiming "women" are the cause of the battle of the sexes.  Have you heard the latest?

The latest theory is women are the cause of the destruction...

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The False Marriage Persona Apr 30, 2022
Article by Carl E Stevens Jr. | Progressive Insights
I have to admit, although I’m a little embarrassed to say so, I thought something magical would happen upon getting married.
I guess from one perspective it did. Kenya and I had a beautiful wedding, surrounded by friends and family. She...
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What is Too Many Lovers? Jul 20, 2021

Post From Torayanita | A guest author at Progressive Love Academy

Among those who are aware of Open Relationships, there are several questions that continuously arise in seeking to understand this way of relating:

Why do 'you people' [open relators] feel the need to have so many lovers?

Is...

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What is an Open Relationship? Jun 29, 2021

I didn't want to do this, but I feel I must.  It's time.  There is just too much misinformation flying around town these days as the world opens to love, and older ways are revealed to be unsustainable.  Sure, as marriage becomes an Epic Fail in our culture, we are seeking,...

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Swinging vs Open Relating Jun 29, 2021

I am not a swinger.  From what I understand, swinging is the idea of having outside sexual affairs along with your partner.  Swinging usually happens at parties or lavish affairs where people get together, get naked and have some fun!  Usually, the husband or wife involved is able...

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What Monogamy, Monotony & Dog Food Fights Have In Common Jun 29, 2021

This weekend I had the pleasure of a fresh date!  I love meeting new people!   I'd met my date just a week prior on Tinder and alas we decided to walk our dogs together.  A walk in the woods is not a very hookup friendly date, I use the dating app, Tinder,  not to find hook...

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